You are probably like millions of other people and want a healthy relationship/marriage that will last for many years to come. Everything could be going just as you dreamed it would then one day something happens and the trust is gone. Do not give up on the marriage/relationship instead learn how to rebuild trust in a relationship again.
There are so many different things that can break the trust. If one of you all of a sudden start staying away from the home more often and get caught lying about where you are. If you get spotted by a friend cheating with another person and the other partner gets told then the trust will also be gone. When lies and cheating are brought to the relationship/marriage then the problems begin to mount quickly. This can cause undue stress upon all parties involved. Sometimes you might even find yourself getting physically sick because you are stressing so much.
No one like to be told how and when to do things. A relationship means that both parties are able to come to decisions together. If just one party is making all the decisions then this could cause tempers to flare which can led to a fight. When people fight in a rage of anger they tend to say hurtful things to one another that just cannot be forgotten.
Did you know that every relationship needs friends and family in order to survive? You cannot isolate each other from others. When you start isolating each other then you start to fear the person will leave you if they make friends. This isolation can also eventually lead to insecurities in the relationship.
When you are starting a relationship with another person it is always best to have common interests. If you have nothing in common then you might as well be single. You are going to do things as a couple. An example is if you are a partier and your partner likes staying home then eventually there could be arguments. It could give the person staying at home a since of insecurity and they might begin to wonder who you are fooling around with when you are out.
Any relationship/marriage will always take communication and trust in order for it to be a successful one. If you find doubts going through your head, more arguing, lies being told, or even if one of the parties has cheated then the bond of trust has been broken. If you want to work things out then the first step is to rebuild trust in a relationship again. With the proper help the trust can be rebuilt and the love can be rekindled.
Keith Braithwaite is a generally nosy and opinionated guy but his heart is in the right place. After nearly thirty years in the corporate world and twenty keenly observing direct selling, he is now following his interests in self-development, internet marketing and historical studies.
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Source: Ezine