Married people have multiple disagreements about the same issue, normally about what is missing in their relationship. After so many of these unresolved, not corrected disagreements, eventually people are forced to make a decision, to be or to be without. But it's not as simple as one may think, because at that point in the relationship, after getting married and years go by, it's not logical to just up and leave. There are feelings involved, economic status, amongst other things and not to mention plenty of doubt.
Marriage is supposed to be about satisfying, if not all, at least most of the other person's wants and needs to provide happiness, but what happens when all of the wants and needs are not being satisfied and complete happiness is not acquired, but attainable? A very difficult decision must be made.
Though, some people choose to be without, some choose an alternative route to be with. People are aware of the fact that they only have one life to live, and a person's significant other is supposed to be the last and only person in his/her life until death. So, there should be no limits in satisfying one another's waking desires, but that's not always the case, and it becomes a steadily progressing problem.
Depending on many different factors over a period of time, people are forced to seek out what they are not getting at home, because obviously they need or desperately want to have whatever is missing in their relationship. There is a lot be taken into consideration, and not to mention, uncertain and life changing risks. We all have to realize that there are many other people who will do what we won't do. Somebody else can and is willing to fill that void. We all know it, but we don't always realize and acknowledge it.
Cheating is not always about sex, but sex does come with the territory. It's the reward for filling the emotional or intellectual incomplete void(s) in one's life and almost always is the deal breaker, the presumed explanation or reason for cheating.
Make no mistake about it, people don't get married with the intent to cheat. It comes with a lot of disappointment over a prolonged period of time for the one you love. The fact that a person would go through, all of what it takes to cheat, is a sign that the love is still there, but with doubt. The many reasons that people cheat are being openly communicated, but not appropriately recognized, until the damage is done. Don't put your significant other in a predicament to cheat, or to be without. It's not fair!
I'm not condoning, recommending, nor am in favor of cheating, but it's not always the cheater who is at fault for potentially ruining the relationship. It's not always about lack of communication, but the result of communication. If there were more than two unresolved, not corrected, not satisfied, disagreements about the same issue then it is one too many. Issues of this nature desperately need to be satisfied, because if they are ignored, lightly brushed off or not willingly and cooperatively being addressed, there may be consequences.
Resolve the issue!
Source: Ezine