Marriage - I'm Trying To Save My Marriage But I Can't Seem To Do Anything Right - What Can I Do?

This is a common problem for any spouse whose trying to save their marriage. You seem to be lost for ideas or everything you've tried so far just isn't working. While it's not exactly your fault, there are several things you should be aware of if you continue to struggle. Some of these things can turn a marriage around in an instant.

First of all, take a closer look at how your handling the news of your spouses desire to end the marriage. Are you being mature about this or have you completely lost your cool.? Not saying that anyone could blame you if you have, in fact it's to be expected that you would fly off the handle at times or say some hurtful things in the middle of all of this, but do understand that it's just going to make your situation a whole lot worse.

It's hard not to want to lay it all out when your emotions are running overboard and you feel like you should have your fair say in all of this as well. But, just because you want to say it doesn't mean you should. You may feel as if you'd like to even the score a little bit and run down the list of your spouses short comings or where they've fell short of living up to all you expected, but keep it to yourself if your goal is to save your marriage.

There will be a time, when things have settled down some where you can gently bring up these issues. But, when your spouse wants to end the marriage and you're the one looking for answers or trying your best to save it, your adding further negativity towards your spouse doesn't help your cause one bit.

You want to keep the lines of communication between the both of you as open and as civil as possible. If your spouse thinks talking to you is going to lead to further bashing of them in every instance, this is going to close up the lines between you pretty fast.

Try to keep your end goal in mind when engaging in discussions about the marriage with your spouse. Even though your spouse may not adhere to this same line of thinking at first, you'd be amazed at what kind of change in attitude this will bring about in her/him.

Your spouse will see that your handling this more mature now or better than expected and will begin to tone down their badgering of you at the same time. Not only that, but it will really get them thinking about some of the things they have said to you and even bring on some apologies at the same time.

Keeping these lines of communication open between the both of you, free from fear of what flaw you or your spouse may point out next is very important. It will help you to uncover more about what you can do to save your marriage and maybe even bring your spouse back on board to examine more ways to fix the marriage together.

It's all up to you! If you don't take action to save your marriage, then who will?

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All my best to you and your spouse!

Source: Ezine


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