Marriage - How to Start Saving Your Marriage

Every marriage has the potential to make both of you so very happy. What happens over time is people grow too comfortable with each other and forget to make each other happy. You forget what it feels like to love someone and be there for them.

To save your marriage you have to turn it around. You can't just sit around and wait for your husband or wife to do it for you. Your relationship is what you make it so let's get to work.

First things first to change your marriage you have to change the way you think. The way most married people this is quite selfish. The only time they would ever do something for their spouse is when they expect something in return. Like if a guy wants sex he will give his wife a massage. He doesn't massage his wife because he loves her, he does it because he wants something from her.

Let me tell you that your spouse knows damn well what you are doing and subconsciously they will resent you for it, if they don't already. You have to change that. What I want you to do is for the next month I want you to do things for your spouse and get nothing in return. Even if they offer something to in return. Just say something like "no thanks honey, I just wanted to show you how much I love you" or something along those lines. Make them feel good about themselves and show them that you are still interested in them. Next thing is go out on a date. Call your wife or husband on your way home and tell them you two are going out for the night. Do not tell them where or any details, just tell them you want them ready to go out when you get home and of course if you have kids make sure to find a baby sitter first.

To keep a relationship going it's all about the little things. The more little things you can do for your wife or husband the more your relationship will grow. If you can make your wife or husband happy than they will never leave you, never cheat on you, and will have so much respect for you they would do anything for you. The key is to make changes to yourself that will improve your relationship do not wait for them to do it. Take action in your marriage.

Source: Ezine