Are you in love with a woman who seems to have a little too much fun flirting with other guys? Does she assure you that it means nothing and that she really does love you? There's not many worse things that a woman can do to a guy than to flirt with other men and make him insecure. We all hear the cliches about how you cannot be jealous and that it's always just insecurity when you are acting jealous, but sometimes, there is a good reason to feel that way.
So, why would it be that she would say that she loves you, but she ends up flirting with other guys?
Now, the standard advice that comes out of the non traditional advice for men, is that this is just a test and that you need to be able to shrug it off and not let it get to you and then you have nothing to worry about. Well, that sounds nice, and sometimes it does apply and ring true, but then there are other situations where it just isn't a test. Some women just are not cut out for a relationship, and it does not matter what age they are... 21, 31, or 41... they just don't know how to not be flirty with other men.
For some women, this is the only way that they know how to communicate with men, or it is the only way that they know how to get attention. If your girlfriend is in that category, then you either have to move on and away from her or get used to the fact that she is going to make you insecure. It's really up to you and what you are willing to put up with more than anything else. And I have to tell you, sometimes it's an indication that she is cheating on you, will cheat on you or just has no problem cheating on you if she is open about flirting hard with other guys.
Is she friendly flirting or is it something more?
The other thing that you really need to look at, is whether or not she is just friendly flirting or if she is going beyond that. Men and women who really are just friends and nothing more will flirt with each other from time to time, it's just natural that this happens. However, it usually is on a much more friendly level, and not as sexual in nature. If that is the way that your girlfriend likes to flirt, then you really may have nothing to worry about.
One the other hand, if you see that your girlfriend likes to take things up a little and talk sexually when she is flirting with other guys, then you may want to reconsider the relationship. After all, it does not take much for that sexual talk to escalate to something more than that, and you may not want to have to deal with that happening.
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Source: Ezine