show how much you care

From busy schedules to jaded pasts, sometimes it's hard to show your love. When you're knee-deep in a relationship, you and your partner can become so comfortable, you'll forget how to show how much you care. Yeah, you might say a quick, "I love you," on the way out, but it's become such a routine its true meaning is diminishing. Before you and your partner become bitter at the not-so-thoughtful gestures of love (as in, just saying the words, but not showing it), it's time to get creative. Not sure how? Read on.

1. Make his favorite meal.

Whether it's meat and potatoes or spaghetti and meatballs, before your guy comes home from work, prepare his favorite meal for no reason.

 

2. Give him love coupons.

You can get them at your local Barnes & Noble for less than $15. From free love-making sessions to granted fantasies, your baby will know how much you love him.

3. Text him sweet nothings during work days.

During a hard day in the office, it's always nice to see your significant other is thinking of you. When his phone buzzes and he reads, "I miss you," he'll know you're his.

4. Just tell him you love him.

As easy as it is, some couples forget the importance of loving statements. Men aren't the most complicated of creatures. Just come out and say what you feel and that should suffice.

5. Buy him a hot new gadget.

Let's face it, most men get excited about fancy, shiny new gadgets. Get your man the new iPhone or the hottest plasma TV on the market if your budget will allow it. He'll know how much you mean to him because you gave him this uber thoughtful present.


6. Make yourself pretty for him.

Get your nails done, your hair blown out and do your makeup up nice before your next date. Some women tend to let themselves go after being committed to the man of their dreams. Make yourself sexy so he'll know how much you want him.

7. Go out of your way.

Suggest an outing that you know he's been dying to do that you've been so-so about. Making that type of sacrifice and doing something you weren't 100 percent about before will show him how much you love him.

8. Compliment him on his hair.

Just because they're men, doesn't mean they don't care about their hair. Male pattern baldness is something that many men worry about. Not to mention, some guys can be insecure about their looks. A compliment about his hair will go a long way.

9. Give him a big hug when you see him next.

Sure, you kiss him all the time, but when was the last time you gave your guy a big bear hug (you know, like the kind that lasts more than ten seconds and that involves a good squeeze?). He'll feel as warm as the hug in no time.

10. Make him breakfast in bed.

Wake up a little earlier than your beau and prepare him eggs the way he likes it, toast and a glass of orange juice. Bring it to him in bed and let him relax before he has to get up and face the rest of the day. He'll feel the warm fuzzies all day because of your sweet gesture.


11. Let him pick the pizza toppings next time you order.

You and your lover may have plenty in common, but pizza toppings is not one of them. In fact, whenever you order, it results in an argument of who wants what. Rather than getting two pies, let him win once in awhile. If you really can't consume his picks, just pick them off. Hopefully, next time, he'll let you choose.

12. Take him out on a date for a change.

Some girls are very old-fashioned and expect the man to always take them out. For the most part, men do follow through. They do the planning, not to mention the paying. Invite your love for a date for a change -- you plan and pay.

13. Rent him a hot Ferrari to drive for a day.

Yes, this is possible. It might get costly, but if you have the funds, your lovebug will be ultimately grateful. Enterprise, for instance, offers services, for just that. You can rent really awesome cars for the day.

14. Act out his wildest fantasy!

Ask him about his sexual fantasies and make one of them come to life. Whether he's always dreamed of you dressing up like Princess Leia (in that gold bikini) or wants you to pretend to be a naughty schoolgirl, just give it a shot. Not only will he know how much you love him, you'll likely be rewarded in the bedroom.

15. Write him a love letter.

With e-mail and texting, couples have completely forgotten about the good ol' love letter. Leave your man a love letter somewhere around your home where you know he'd find it. Tell him something really nice, fun or sweet. Guaranteed, he'll be blushing and will hopefully respond with a love letter of his own.


16. Do all the work next time you're in bed.

And if you want to use handcuffs, even better. Let your man sit back and relax while you pleasure him in all the ways he likes.

17. Let him pick the movie.

Even if it's a slasher movie or an action flick you know you'll hate, just tough it out. If you're not into it, just zone it out while you're sitting there or fall asleep. The key here is that you let him make the decision.

18. Send him out with the boys.

Surprise him and arrange for him to have a boys night out. So many ladies forget how important it is to let their men go out for a night on the town with the guys. If you give your love a pass -- even better, plan it for him -- he will know how much you mean to him. Some girls won't even consider this gesture.

19. Give him the remote control.

You can miss Grey's Anatomy and The Hills this week. Relinquish control of the channel changer for a day (or a week). Try to enjoy what he likes to watch. You will not only show how much you love him, you might even learn more about him (and each other) in the process.

20. Let him love you.

This is pretty simple. Oftentimes, we're jaded about past loves lost and horrible ex-boyfriends, we forget there are good guys out there. When we become cynics (and who can blame some of us), we are harder on the next boyfriend. Let your guy love you. Being that vulnerable will only show just how much you care.

 

 

 


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