The successful ladies’ man must be skilled at dealing with all sorts of women, but it’s a special treat when he encounters one who is especially partial to the traits a Player possesses. These women make our lives easier simply because they are drawn to the Player; they may identify with the concept of fun without attachment; they may assume such a man knows his way around a woman’s body; they may expect a thrilling, lustful adventure. Whatever the reason, certain women require little effort to approach, and they represent the Player’s fail-safe option. If you consider yourself an experienced attractor of the fairer sex and your little black book is looking thin, be on the lookout for the following types of Player-loving females who are always rarin’ to go. All you need is your carefully refined powers of observation -- which you must implement immediately -- and you’re good to go.
The party girl
The party girl is easy to spot: She typically falls into the 21-29 age group, she enjoys being the center of attention and she’s bored if she’s not grinding away on the dance floor on Saturday nights. She’s comfortable being one of the hottest women in the room, and not only that, she’s willing to flaunt what she has. More reserved women may quickly label her a “whore,” but there’s a distinct difference between the girl who just loves to have fun and the girl who only exists to sleep with hundreds of men. The party girl immediately assumes that you are tailor-made for her; that you complement her very existence; that you’re the perfect end to a wild night. It doesn’t get much easier.
The thrill-seeker
This is the woman who thrives on adrenaline and bursts of energy. Whether she skydives or bungie-jumps or never drives slower than 20 miles per hour over the speed limit, she lives life in the fast lane. Although the Player is often associated with the calmer, cooler, more aloof side of love and romance, the thrill-seeker will watch you with voracious eyes. If she has identified you, she has likely marked you as well: You are the new mountain she absolutely must scale, and it’ll be most satisfying when she reaches the summit. She knows you may provide her with more of a challenge than other men, and there’s nothing she likes more than a challenge. So if you’ve got a thrill-seeker on your hands, step up your game and see if you can get her to beg.
The rebounder
This is the woman who doesn’t think too highly of marriage or any form of commitment, especially if she’s fresh off a divorce or a long-term relationship, and she’s hitting the clubs for one of two reasons: First, to live the life she wasn’t allowed to live when chained to her man, or second, to get revenge on her ex. It may not be anything personal, but if you’ve ever been with a rebounder, they’re likely to adopt a vicious, “Oh God, I need this now” attitude that flies directly in the face of convention. It’s as if she’s rebelling against an idea that she has now determined to be false. You are the ideal escape. You are the exact type of man she needs, if only for one night. There is no chance of commitment, there’s little in the way of responsibility, and the only thing that matters is passion.
The aggressively curious
Have you ever met a Player-loving woman like this? They’re well worth speaking to, if only because they have a particular interest in…well, everything. They love to try new things and if they’ve never before been on the arm of an established Player, they’re more than willing to link up. They may stare at you in awe when they become aware of your position and reputation, and then they may fire a thousand questions in your direction like a serious student grilling a professor. In this situation, you may want to withhold some information simply to keep her interest piqued. If you seem like the mysterious guy who all women seem to gravitate toward, she really won’t be able to help herself. Play your cards right, and she’ll come away with extra knowledge and a flush in her cheeks.
The girly girl
The girls who like the frilly things are into being girls, and it stands to reason that they’d be into guys who are guys. The Player is a man’s man; he’s a charismatic gentleman with an abundance of chivalry, one who respects and adores women, and one who can represent the epitome of masculinity in the eyes of the girly girl. She’s not interested in anything even remotely close to gender-bending, so she expects less of the sensitivity and more of the swagger on your part, which you should be capable of providing. She also believes that men are supposed to like and enjoy women, and this traditional outlook can play directly into your hand. Just don’t mistake “girly girl” for simpering airhead, because that can be an irritating misstep that only leads to headaches.