Some women spend a lot of effort trying to get better at understanding men. What they don't realize is that they should forget about the men and focus more on themselves and doing more of what they enjoy. Doing more of what you enjoy brings out your inner strengths and ultimately, this is what men love. We don't want girls who try to make us happy by not being themselves. We want women who know their strengths. Can you see where the inspiration for this article's headline comes from now? I'll give you 3 reasons why men love women who are strong.
1. We Know That They Can Support Us
This is one of the big reasons that men like being in relationships with women who are strong. If they display mental, emotional and physical strength (in the form of health), this usually means that they can hold the fort if we ever need to recover.
This is a reassuring feeling for a lot of men, especially those who find that they feel burdened by the task of having to always be there to look after the household.
2. They Can Help Us Grow
This is another reason that doesn't really strike men initially but is something that benefits us in the long term. You always want to find out what your strengths are and improve on them, right? By having someone who has similar strengths to you, but is stronger than you in them, they can motivate you to improve as well.
This makes the relationship stronger between the couple and makes everything a lot more stable in the long run. By building each other up, you build up your relationship to be stronger than ever as well.
3. They Are Themselves
This is something else which is reassuring for a lot of guys. We don't want to marry a woman to only find out that she has been pretending to be someone else the entire time. That makes this difficult and essentially, we married a stranger.
A woman who is strong is typically strong is what she's naturally good at. She practices it and she isn't afraid to hide it. People who are strong generally aren't afraid to be themselves. The woman you marry is the woman you will be together with.
If you want to get better at understanding men, understand that we like women who are strong. Not because they can beat us in a fight but because they can support us if we're feeling down and out, they can help us grow and they won't have an identity crisis down the track.
Jack Keys is married to a beautiful woman with whom he has a gorgeous daughter. Within 6 months of being married, they were already on the rocks. Using his degree in psychology, Jack analyzed what was wrong with their marriage and brought back their marriage into safe territory.
If understanding men is an issue for you, download Jack's free report that he wrote to try and help women learn about and solve men issues that put stress on marriage, such as what men really want out of a marriage (it's not sex, love or children), why your man is falling out of love with you and why he's ignoring what you're asking him to do.
Source: Ezine