Love - I'm In Love With Her - But I Don't Know If She Feels The Same Way

You are in love with a woman and you don't know if she feels the same way about you. Countless moments throughout the day, you find yourself drifting off into thoughts about her. When you do think about her, it feels good, almost like the world is just right. At the same time, though, there is that feeling that you just cannot describe, that feeling that speaks to you and asks, does she feel the same way?

It's hard to think about things like this rationally when you are the one who is involved. Could you be setting yourself up for a major disappointment or is it possible that she might be falling for you?

For a lot of guys, this is something that they want, yet at the same time-- something that they fear. For any man that has had the experience of unrequited love, they know all too well about what kind of an emotional roller coaster that this can put you on. One minute, all you feel is total elation as you think about her, and imagine her being your girlfriend. The next minute, you are cascading down, wondering if she will break your heart and tell you that she just does not feel that way about you.

If you are in love with a woman and you don't know if she feels the same way, you have to do one of two things:

(a) You can either stay with the fantasy that is building in your mind. The major problem with this is, what if it is all just a delusion? What if you build up this fantasy to the point where you think of her as being the perfect woman and she ends up breaking your heart into a million pieces by being real?

(b) You can try to bring this fantasy into reality by letting her know that this is how you feel about her. Of course, there is the obvious possibility that she will end up rejecting you, saying that what you feel and what she feels are not one and the same. The flip side of this is also possible and you might find out that she feels the same way.

Seems like there is only two possibilities and both carry their risks, don't they?

Well, sometimes you have to face the fact that there is a risk when you love a woman. A risk that she might say no to you and even a risk that she might say yes. What you can do, is to learn how to make a woman fall in love. What this entails, is that you have to work on doing the things that make it almost impossible for her to not feel the same way back. It's by no means a 100 percent guarantee, but it is a lot better option than building up a fantasy that leads to nowhere or the possibility that you will pour out all of your emotions, only to hear her say that she just does not feel the same way about you.

Source: Ezine