Love in the SMS era can be a little confusing as you can't see him as he is texting so you can only guess at how he is feeling. Relying on an imagination that is fueled by the words he uses in his SMS you guess whether he is smiling or frowning in irritation or angry or frustrated or jumping up and down for joy or etc but sadly your imagination could be completely wrong. But love in the SMS era must continue and we must just get better at using it and deciphering what the other person is saying or not saying. In that vein what does it mean when you text him but he doesn't text you back?
1. He has very little interest in you! His interest in you is minimal either because he doesn't know you well enough or his interest in you has not peaked yet. If your interest in him is romantic then this may not be a bad thing as it tells you clearly what his attitude toward you is and this is a great pointer for love in the SMS era as it allows you to deliberately decide on how to proceed from this point on.
2. He is busy. However lame this may sound it may actually be true but you must find out what he is busy doing. He may be busy with another love interest or in a hobby he really enjoys or a demanding job or on his studies. Love in the SMS era requires that you find out what he is busy with so that you don't waste your time with someone who has another love interest or conversely give up on someone who could have been great for you but has urgent job or school commitments right now.
3. He has zero interest in you! This can be heart shattering but it is always best to read the signs before he either tells you or he hurts you. If he never replies to your SMS 's then he has absolutely no interest in you and you need to move on. If he has vague apologies when you ask about his tardiness in replying to your SMS 's then move along gal as he does not have an emotional spark for you. You may be tempted to light his emotional fire but this will require skill and persistence similar to lighting a damp log fire using matches; some people can do it while others only get smoke and tears.
4. He is badly behaved! He may simply be a self centered man whose only focus is himself. He would thus not do much for others as his entire world revolves around himself. In the SMS era this shows you how he will treat you if you get into a relationship with him. Your life will have to revolve around him and is this type of relationship you want or deserve? If he treats you badly over SMS why do you think he will treat you any differently face-to-face?
Love in the SMS era requires that you see his SMS texting behavior as who he really is. If he finds time to SMS you back in a witty and flirty way then he cares for you but if he places you on the back-burner so that he doesn't find time to SMS you ever then that may show you how he really feels about you. His deeds should show you what he truly feels about you.
Rosy Anderson is a researcher in social economic issues and the way they affect decision making; and she enjoys writing and being in healthy, happy relationships. If you are still unsure whether he really likes you then use these 15 signs he likes you to help you know with clarity but if you SMS each other but have difficulty speaking face-to-face with each other then try these 7 talking to men tips to get the conversation flowing.
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