Is there a special man in your life that you totally love and yet, for some reason you are not quite sure if he feels the same way about you? If so, then you might feel like you are on an emotional roller coaster at times. Sure, it feels good to love someone else, but when you are unsure if they feel the same way... it can really drag you down. Don't get too down about it, though, because there are some simple ways that you can tell if he feels the same way you do.
As you are already probably well aware of, men and women do not show their emotions in the same way. Sometimes, that can make you miss out on signs that he does love you, because you are looking for him to do things in a way that you would. Of course, that's kind of an unreal expectation, but that does not mean that you won't fall into the trap of looking for clear signs that you would understand.
So, what are some ways that you can tell if he really loves you?
1. One of the first things that you should look at is, how he treats you when other people are around.
If he acts very differently in the presence of other people, that can be a sign that he may not feel as strongly as you do. Of course, it could also just be that he's insecure about showing his true feelings and he thinks he has to hide it. Still, when a man is really in love with a woman, he usually will still show it in some way when other people are around.
2. Does he treat you like an afterthought, or like you are always on his mind?
You know he can't literally have you on his mind all of the time. If he seems to treat you as an afterthought though, that can mean that his real intentions are not the same as yours and that probably also means that he does not share the same feelings that you do. When a guy treats a woman as an afterthought, he's usually not all that serious about her.
3. Does he surprise you with thoughtful gifts every now and again?
When a guy really is falling for a woman, then he usually tries to show it through gifts. They don't have to be expensive ones, and usually the more thoughtful or personal they are... the stronger it is an indication that he is indeed falling for you.
While these three ways can help you to determine if he really does love you or not, you do also have to keep in mind that not every guy is going to show his love in the same way. So, you also want to look for other clues as to how he really feels about you as well.
It's hard to find the right guy, but if you want to know how to attract the right man, then you need to really know what works and what does not.
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