One of the most common situations that men will find themselves in, is having a female friend that they dream about being more than friends with, but alas... all they will ever be seen as is just a pal or a buddy and nothing more. Getting stuck in the proverbial friend zone with a woman can be incredibly stressful and it can even lead a guy to become delusional about the way that dating and attraction really works. Don't get too down if you are stuck in this situation, there IS a way to get out.
Of course, the simplest and easiest answer is to find a way to make sure that you never end up being seen as just a pal or a buddy, but that is easier said than done. So, what is it that a guy can do when he becomes friends with a woman he would much rather be friends with?
To start off, you need to get one thing deeply entrenched in your mind and that is... if you want her to want you as a guy she would date... then you have to act like one. It's inevitable that if you act like a really good friend to a woman, this is the way that she is going to see you and this is the way that she is going to think about you. And the worst part is... you did it to YOURSELF!
Now that we got that part out of the way... let's get to the CORE of how to go from friends to lovers with a woman an make it happen as quickly as possible:
You have to start subtle if you want to make the transition as seamless and as painless as possible. So, don't start telling her that you want to date her and don't be too overt at first if you are trying to flirt with her. You have to kind of gradually move things into a new direction and this can take some time. Basically, one of the easiest ways to do this is to get her to the point where she starts thinking to herself that maybe she wants to date you.
The other thing that you need to do right away is to cut off the activities that only buddies would do with each other. That might mean that you start to spend a lot less time with her at first, but that is okay. The quicker you are to STOP doing the "pals thing" and start doing the "hey, I want you thing" the better off you are going to be.
How do you make her start to want YOU?
Once there is a disconnect with doing the pals kind of things together, it will actually be pretty easy to transition her from friends to lovers by approaching her the way that you would a woman you have just met and you want to date. This means that you have to flirt with her, and you have to know how to create sexual attraction between you and her. And you also have to be ready for the possible rejection that may follow.
If you already know that you want her, then you need to find out how to make HER want YOU as more than just another friend...
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