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  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
  • Error loading Modules:MySQL server has gone away SQL=SELECT id, title, module, position, content, showtitle, control, params FROM jos_modules AS m LEFT JOIN jos_modules_menu AS mm ON mm.moduleid = m.id WHERE m.published = 1 AND m.access <= 0 AND m.client_id = 0 AND ( mm.menuid = 44 OR mm.menuid = 0 ) ORDER BY position, ordering
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Năm cách từ chối chuyện ấy nhẹ nhàng

Saturday, 20 March 2010 13:13

Nếu bạn không có tâm trạng nào cho "chuyện ấy", nhưng cũng không muốn làm tổn thương lòng tự ái của chàng, sau đây là 5 cách để từ chối hiệu quả:

Có những thời điểm trong chu kỳ sinh học mà tình trạng “chăn gối” của chị em chúng ta cực kỳ tệ. Nói một cách cụ thể thì chúng ta cảm thấy chẳng chút hứng thú gì với chuyện ấy. Tuy nhiên, công bằng mà nói thì ngay cả việc ngán ngẩm ái ân đó của chúng ta cũng là một cảm giác hết sức logic và dễ hiểu trong vòng đời.

Có thể bạn đã cố gắng thuyết phục mình rằng anh ấy đáng yêu, hấp dẫn, bạn cũng đã công phu chuẩn bị cho một buổi tối lãng mạn và lẽ ra, trong điều kiện tuyệt vời ấy, bạn sẽ phải có một đêm nồng nàn với chàng, đúng không? Tuy nhiên, thực tế có vẻ như lại quá trớ trêu, khắc nghiệt. Không có gì khiến bạn thanh thản, hạnh phúc hơn là đọc một cuốn sách, thư giãn với không gian riêng, thỏa sức chưng diện đồ trong căn nhà của chính mình... nhưng giờ đây, bạn chẳng thiết tha với bất cứ điều gì trong số đó.

Và trong khi cảm thấy thực sự không ổn, không ít phụ nữ sẽ có xu hướng điều chỉnh cảm xúc và những mong muốn của mình để dễ dàng phù hợp hơn với đức lang quân, một sự nỗ lực vừa để thông cảm với niềm khao khát, với bản ngã của chàng, vừa để tránh những ngày u ám không đáng có.

Dưới đây là 5 lời khuyên hữu ích để từ chối một cách khéo léo và vẫn giữ lấy không khí ấm cúng trong gia đình khi bạn không muốn làm "chuyện ấy".

1. "Em đang trong những ngày khó ở"

Đây chính xác là “mẹ” của mọi lý do và một cách tự nhiên, nó chỉ có thể được dùng duy nhất một lần vào mỗi tháng. Nhưng chàng lại cho đó là một sự hấp dẫn. Hãy dành cho chàng một vài sự miêu tả văn hoa về sự khó chịu, thiếu thoải mái, sự kinh khủng nếu làm chuyện ấy và cả về những chiếc băng vệ sinh bạn luôn phải mang nữa. Thật chẳng khó khăn gì để chàng phải nản lòng, đúng không?

2. "Em đang chờ kết quả xét nghiệm"

Bạn không muốn làm chuyện ấy dưới bất kỳ hình thức nào với bất kỳ ai cho đến khi nhận được chứng nhận an toàn về sức khỏe tình dục. Nhớ rằng không bao cao su sẽ không bao giờ tạo nên tình dục an toàn. Người bạn tốt nhất của bạn đã có một “hợp đồng sức khỏe” để an tâm quan hệ lành mạnh. Hãy mạnh dạn nghĩ về điều đó, bạn rất nên đề nghị chàng cũng có những bài xét nghiệm về các bệnh lây truyền qua đường tình dục. Nhưng trước khi chàng kịp làm điều ấy thì tốt nhất bạn cần phải biết từ chối để tự bảo vệ mình

Nói "không" với chàng không khó như bạn tưởng

3. "Thứ thuốc em đang dùng gây tác dụng phụ và làm mất hết cảm hứng yêu đương"

Cơ thể bạn phản ứng lại một cách khó hiểu với thứ thuốc bạn đang dùng và nó dập vùi khả năng ân ái của bạn. Chả có lý do gì để bạn đánh liều với cơ thể mình trong việc tiếp tục dùng nó. Dẫu bạn có phân vân và thực sự không muốn nghĩ đến, nhắc đến nó đi chăng nữa thì tốt nhất bạn vẫn nên dừng sử dụng loại thuốc đó lại càng sớm càng tốt.

4. "Em nghĩ rằng có thể em đã bị ngộ độc thực phẩm"

Một lý do tuyệt vời nếu bạn chỉ vừa rời khỏi bữa tối. Điều này có thể sẽ cần vận dụng một chút đến khả năng diễn xuất của bạn như: giả vờ ôm bụng, rên rỉ hoặc chạy vào nhà tắm xả thật to vòi nước và cố tình làm như bạn đang nôn. Lẽ nào chàng lại nỡ lòng bắt bạn phải lao lực để chiều chàng trong tình trạng sức khỏe “tồi tệ” như thế?

5. Nói với anh ấy sự thật

Ông bà ta vẫn có câu “nói ngọt lọt đến xương”. Nếu bạn không muốn làm chuyện ấy , cũng chả nhất thiết phải ép mình để khiến chàng vui lòng. Hãy tô vẻ một chút cho sự từ chối của bạn, đặc biệt nếu anh ấy là người dễ xiêu lòng trước những lời nót ngọt.

Nếu không, hãy thẳng thắng bảo rằng “chỉ là ngay lúc này thì em không có tâm trạng, anh ạ”, “em yêu anh nhưng có lẽ em chưa sẵn sàng”, hoặc “anh thật tuyệt, tuy nhiên em cảm giác chúng ta không được phù hợp”... tất cả đều có thể chấp nhận. Những câu trả lời trung thực thiết yếu sẽ giúp bạn trong việc đưa ra đề xuất được nhanh chóng hơn và đồng thời cho chàng một vài bài học bổ ích về cuộc sống, tình yêu, khoa học...


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