Marriage - Saving Your Marriage - How Taking A Closer Look At What Went Wrong Could Change Everything

There comes a time in all of our lives when we must truly take a step back and give our lives a once over with a fine tooth comb. This couldn't ring more true than when looking at how your marriage got into this troubling position in the first place. Doing so may help you to unveil not only what went wrong, but how to fix it.

With the hustle and bustle of every day life, it's easy to fall into patterns or repetitive behavior that might have not been taken on by choice. After a while, these types of patterns in behavior or what seems like part of the now everyday routine can really begin to play havoc on relationships and commitments that were previously established under a whole other set of patterns and behaviors, and have now become strained due to life changes.

You see, when you first get married, there's nothing to prepare you on how to weather the many storms, trials and tribulations that take place over the years. There are many changes that take place and it's a couples duty to their marriage to properly care for their marriage through all of life's many changes that come about. Many times, not balancing these changes in life with your marriage can be the sole reason of it's problems. You may not see it at first, until you carefully examine what changed and what the effects of that change are on the both of you.

Often times, many things that change can have conflicting interests that require extra attention to balance them out. For instance, if you got married being a young strapping couple full of zest and energy, ready to take on the world together from the moment you said "I do", and decided to have children, well this goes without saying how it will now totally flip flop the dynamics of this marriage. For one, the attention you both once reserved for each other, will most likely now take a back seat to the attention that is needed to raise your children. The sleep you so once enjoyed together, will now be a lack of sleep, and to some degree, sleep will now become more important to one or both of you than other intimate encounters, if you know what I mean.

If you thought your schedule was busy before children, think again. You now have to, as a duty to your spouse and your marriage, find new ways of balancing out your new found responsibilities with what brought the both of you together in the first place.

Now this is just one example, but it's one of the most common. It leads to all sorts of issues. You're not doing things with your spouse like you used to. You're neglecting some of the things that you both used to hold so dear, like hobbies, vacation, long walks, night time dream sharing, intimacy etc.. The list, depending on who you are and what it entails could go on and on.

So, do yourself a favor and begin to pick apart what might have went wrong or the things that are lacking now in your marriage that meant so much to the both of you before change came along and try to insert those back into the marriage. It is often this lack of nurturing what brought the both of you together that causes most marital problems in your marriage.

It's all up to you! If you don't take this action to save your marriage, then who will?

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All my best to you and your spouse!

Source: Ezine


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