If you have ever gotten love advice before, chances are it all boiled down to one simple concept. Be a nice guy and eventually you will be able to make a woman fall in love with you. As a man, we are taught this from the time we first discover dating, and unfortunately, most guys tend to go on believing that this is all it takes to make a woman fall in love with them. Even after they see first hand for themselves that this is not always the case, most guys tend to stay in the frame of mind where they assume that just being a nice guy should be enough. Is it?
Not at all.
First of all, let's be real for a minute here. When most guys are putting on their nice guy act, the truth is, they have something else in mind. They are trying to use that act as a way to make a woman like them. So, as natural as it may seem to be, it's really not all that natural. Not only that, but you have to really know that just being a good guy is not going to get you very far.
If it were that easy, no one would have dating problems. Every guy would just use his niceness as a way to get in good with a woman.
It's not and they don't.
Of course, you don't want to approach a woman and be act like a blockhead and think that you are suddenly going to turn things around. But, it does take more than just being "nice" to make a woman love you.
What else does it take?
Most women are not looking for a completely boring guy. They want to have some fun in their life and they want to feel some excitement. No matter how cordial you might be, if she is not having fun with you, then you are not going to make her love you.
Another key to making a woman feel that way is to pose a challenge to her. What is more fun and exciting than feeling like someone is a challenge to you.
So, you want to do your best to play the role of the hard to get male.
Make her feel like she has to work to get your attention some of the time. Make her feel like she has to be nice to you.
Just being a good guy, being cordial, and all of those other things that you get taught to be when you are young is not enough to make a woman feel like she is falling for you. You have to do more. You have to trigger the RIGHT emotions and condition her to associate you with FEELING GOOD. Do this and you will be able to attract women easily and make them fall in love with YOU.
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Source: Ezine